But what I do remember is riding into the dusky twilight and hearing "Trilogy" for the first time. I think it changed me.
At some point, I picked up the piano music and it became part of my regular non-piano-lesson repertoire. It's not fancy, musically, but it has some lovely moments, and it catches the breath of my soul literally every time I hear it, sing it, or even just play it.
Tonight, I found it again. And after playing through it a few times, I find myself caught once more.
I. The Other Side of Me
The part I have never understood. The love part. There's such an inherent intimacy in these words.
If I were the ocean / You would be the shore / And one without the other one / Would be needing something more / We are the shadow and the light / Always love me / And never leave me now / Now you are the other side of me.
I think about my recently ended relationship and I wonder: would it, could it ever have been what this song describes? Probably not. Not if I'm truthful with myself. But maybe it could have. If...this. If...that. If...so many things that are not and will not be.
But of one thing I am certain: I have literally no conception of this type of relationship. Every now and then, I'll encounter couples who have been married for a long time and not only still like each other but seem genuinely happy and in love. It's the strangest thing. It just doesn't compute. It's like I'm in a museum, staring at them through a thick glass wall, and there they are: this model of something I can't even wrap my mind around. There is no logic to explain it.
II. Breathe in Me
If ever there is a song for the dark night of the soul, this is the one.
I used to be / So sensitive / To the light that leads / To where you are / Now I've acquired / These callouses / With the darkness of / A cold and jaded heart / So breathe in me / I need you now / I've never felt so dead within.
Now this, I understand. The dark places, the calloused and hardened heart, the feeling that these bones are dead and the only hope is the ruach, the breath of life (הִנֵּה אֲנִי מֵבִיא בָכֶם רוּחַ וִחְיִיתֶם) (Ezek. 37:5b).
And yet it's never when I'm in the darkest places that this song finds me. It's when I have hope once more. It's when I remember Whose life and breath I need in me. And suddenly, I want to play it over and over and over and over because maybe it reminds me that there is light on the other side of darkness and there is hope on the other side of what once seemed dead.
So breathe in me. I need You now.
III. Angels Unaware
Maybe there's a light in my soul
Maybe it flickers like a neon sign outside an abandoned hotel.
And so hope flickers. And light returns.
Maybe there are things you just can't know
But can you say there are no mysteries
In that house you choose to dwell?
And perhaps also with hope and light and breath come a reminder that we are not islands unto ourselves. That no matter what dark night we have traveled through, there are others. Those who need us to step beyond our own struggles and lack of faith and help them. But do it unto the least of these.
Maybe we are entertaining angels unaware.