I’d like to believe that my ability to remain buoyant ranges somewhere between “above average” and “excellent.” Both literally and figuratively. (If indeed a scale existed for such a thing.)
I’m at the pool right now in an attempt to not work for a full 24 hours for the sake of my mental and physical health, even though it’s August, which is why I’m thinking about such things.
In the water, I can stay afloat for a long time with minimal effort. Like, to the point where it surprises people. Perhaps some of it is body composition, but I think a lot of it is an internalization of bel canto breathing (holding a store of air in the lungs at all times and refilling air before completely depleting it, which is a singing technique we practice in choir) along with an ability to stay calm in the water.
Figuratively, I’m the person who stays afloat no matter how hard things get. Usually.
But this summer has been hard. My dog got an aggressive disease and is no longer with me. My professional life (which I usually excel at) feels like no matter how many hours I work, I just can’t dig out enough to satisfy anyone who is relying on me for the countless things people rely on my for. I know I’ve made several people mad at me recently, which also is not common. And I learned this week that the man I had a hopeless crush on (who admittedly, never made a move and probably didn’t feel the same way) will not be returning to work where I work, so it’s fairly likely that I’ll never see him again. Which in some ways is closure to my wondering if anything was ever going to happen between us…but also just makes me feel really disappointed. And sad. Which is ridiculous because why should you be sad over someone you never even had the chance to be with to begin with?—but feelings aren’t always logical, so there you go.
I’m like a country song waiting to be written.
I’m still above the water somehow, but I feel like all the air has been sucked out of my lungs. And I just can’t help but wonder how long it takes before the buoyancy ends…and whether I will be smart enough to get out of the water before it does.